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Dec 20, 2025

vCISO Lessons From The Trenches

vCISOs provide immense value by helping organizations align their security strategy with their business strategy. For many companies, cybersecurity can feel complex, abstract, and overwhelming. A vCISO brings not only technical insight, but also leadership, perspective, and clarity, helping organizations cut through the noise and focus on what truly matters to the business.

Across my engagements, I’ve consistently observed that success as a vCISO is driven far less by technology and far more by human factors. Tools change, frameworks evolve, and threats shift — but relationships, trust, and understanding remain foundational. Four success factors stand out time and again.

Understanding the client’s business is the cornerstone of effective vCISO engagement. The depth of support I can provide is almost always proportional to how well I understand the organization’s goals, operations, risk tolerance, and constraints. Investing time to learn how the business makes money, what keeps leaders up at night, and where risk truly resides enables me to deliver guidance that is relevant, practical, and actionable. When security requirements are shaped by business acumen rather than technical theory, they are far more likely to be adopted and sustained.

Equally important is understanding the client’s culture. Every organization has a unique personality — from how decisions are made, to how risk is evaluated, to how communication flows across teams. A successful vCISO doesn’t impose a one-size-fits-all approach but instead listens, observes, and adapts. Aligning with an organization’s culture and communication style builds trust and ensures that security guidance resonates rather than clashes with how the business operates.

Accessibility and presence often determine the success or failure of a vCISO engagement. Clients need to know that their vCISO is truly with them — not just available on paper, but invested in their success. Being responsive is important, but what matters more is connection, ownership, and reliability during critical moments. When clients feel supported and know they are not navigating challenges alone, collaboration deepens and outcomes improve.

Finally, leading with influence rather than authority is essential. As a vCISO, I don’t have a title on the organizational chart or formal authority over teams. Influence, credibility, and trust become the currency of leadership. By building strong relationships and demonstrating sound judgment, I can earn both relational and operational credibility. Teams follow leaders they trust, not just those with titles. This lesson became clear early in my career, when senior leaders sought my guidance not because of my position, but because of the value I consistently delivered as a security analyst and incident commander.

When selecting a vCISO, organizations should look beyond certifications and technical expertise. Key questions to consider include: Is this person genuinely motivated to understand our business? Are they committed to building relationships? Do they align with how we work and make decisions? The right vCISO is not just a security advisor — they are a trusted partner who helps the organization move forward with confidence.


Phelix Oluoch

Founder, PhelixCyber

E: info@phelixcyber.com

W: PhelixCyber.com

 

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